Right or wrong...good or bad.. who decides

just this other day had a good n thoughtful debate with some friends of mine..it actually started off on valentines' day when a friend jus casually mentioned how he thought going around/dating without any strings attached (..or to be attached) was wrong... morally n ethically.. his point was you propose to a person of the opposite sex only with the intention of marriage..meaning if u see someone..get attracted to tht person it is because u see him/her as a potential life partner.well my point being exactly the opposite meaning marriage is (n should not) be the only criteria for proposing to someone..the point i made was tht jus a casual relationship is harmless n more importantly NOT wrong.. to which he said it ws against our culture.. now we debated a lot on this culture issue with case studies n real life scenarios.. bt with due course of time we were led to another altogether different topic.. who decides whats right/wrong?or something is good/bad?? ohk i know ppl would say ur ethics/principles/moral values,etc.. bt dont give me tht hogwash.. for a moment think of how u can judge a certain act/belief/ritual as being right or wrong in absolute terms.. i mean for the debate above my friend says a casual relationship is wrong.. n i say its absolutely fine n normal.. but like who decides whether it is REALLY right/wrong, good/bad.. its a really controversial topic i know.. but needs lot of maturity to think on it because when u form an opinion on something its based on ur personal bias/experience/culture,etc (meaning it is a relative thing).. BUT does tht mean tht ur opinion is right.. there will always be some ppl who share ur view who feel ur opinion is right..BUT thr will also be ppl who think otherwise.. now who decides who is right among the 2 in absolute terms..
take the case of alcohol consumption, non-vegetarianism, robbery.. all these r issues whr thr is a general consensus tht they r wrong.. but i want you to think WHY r they wrong??keep ur religion/bias/principles aside n think of the answer..
i have tried to burst my brains thinking about this but have not come to a conclusion..does tht mean all tht is in this world is relative?? thts the big question..
plz try n share ur thots/opinions with me would really appreciate that...

i'm back again..

i bac again (not wid a blast..but jus back).. the usual me...hehehe..meaning i always decide to do something n never follow it up.. neways this time will definitely try to do so.. ws jus thinking of picking up a good pasttime..which reminded me of this blog..

jus got my internet connection a few days back.. pretty slow i must say..its thru my phone.. am waiting for God (read: Anil Ambani) to set up Wimax towers soon here.. but still managing.. imagine staying without net/PC for arnd 5 months..suffocating (for me atleast..) in this e-world.. its like oxygen fr me..

neways i love this idea of writing down wht i feel.. i mean its a nice hobby..i like recently picked up this fancy of reading pplz blogs..n found it quite interesting.. i used to think how can ppl write so much..how come they have so much to write.. but when i raise my eyebrows to view my Wildchildz (incidently thts my laptop..) screen is then i realize tht when words begin to flow they jus keep doing so..(thank God for Newton's Ist).. well about this blog.. am not jus writing it for others infact its for me.. i dont expect many ppl to read it.. n hence not expecting any comments either..(bt yet those who do go thru this..wud love to hear ur feedback)..

i'm in pune currently working at Bajaj Auto Ltd...generally go bac home every saturday n return sunday evening/monday morning.. life is pretty chill as of now.. no work pressure .. hv a nice comfy n hygienic (v imp) place to stay.. n am tryin to figure out whr shd i take my life..

will keep updating this space more often..till then ciao n gnite

Lets get started....

well am so pumped up to get started wid this blog tht i jus cudnt stop myself...hence in just an hours time i'm back..

there are a million things running thru my mind...but when it comes to penning them on paper all 'Trains of Thought' come to a screaching halt...
but getting started wid this blog is jus the initial step to actually "organise" my intellectual vault (read : brain)...in the process of writing i may reach conclusions which even i never realized...

ok let me explain why the name 'infinite-anomalies' for my blog...well i'm sure most of u hv seen the phenomenal movie 'The Matrix'..(some like me..several times)..i can bet a million bucks on the fact tht every person who has seen the movie has, in some point of time, thought for a moment tht maybe "I'm The One"...no denying the facts, i have too....but dont u think all of us r 'Neo's somewhr deep inside our minds..i mean we all r born in a world tht has already taken shape due to biased environments, emotions,etc..hence we perceive such an environment to be 'real' and natural...bt remember all of us have been gifted wid the power of our mind (the only thing tht is above all n below God) giving us full authority of questioning wht we perceive as normal/natural!! hence all of us are anomalies (as Neo is in The Matrix) who r 'dazed n confused' n r given a chance to wake up to the Truth!!

I too am trying to find out the Truth in my own way..I may turn out to be The One ;-)

Hey!!!

wanted to start this blog since long...but procrastinated the thing since long..anyways now that i'm here, u'd be getting to read my thoughts, opinions and views on lots of things...
so keep chking this space...
take care